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Taste-test &
Detailed DIY Plan
$ 350
  • Session 1: Taste-Test.
    Like after a little spoon of ice-cream, you could walk away without paying, but you'll want a proper serving!
  • Session 2: Detailed DIY Plan.
    Bespoke Plan we co-engineer using a vast resource with everything you need to learn how to DIY!
  • Mentoring Calls: Zoom + app support.
    Ten Mentoring Calls to celebrate & supplement your DIY success at relieving otherwise-permanent emotional pain!


  • Learn how I help my high-end clients
  • address pain without re-experiencing it &
  • melt heartache away,
  • so you can do my job on your terms.


  • Just three easy payments of $116 gets you:
  • Proof of concept and 15% relief instantly.
  • A bespoke, realistic, supported DIY Plan for 100% relief.
  • Unlimited access to the how-to-wiki.



  • RELIEF FROM RECURRING,
    PAINFUL FEELINGS.

    At your own pace.
    (Fast.)
    With ample support.

It starts with
Step 1.


This is when we would pick one measurable life-improvement,
and outline how & how quickly you can get there.

No faith/hope required.
No hard sales. No pressure.
accepting
new mentees

No sudden moves 

Step 1:

2 FREE Calls:
FREE Introduction Call 
+ FREE Slept-On-It Call 

Step 2: 

Taste-Test Call
+ Detailed DIY Planning Call,
+ Ten Mentoring Calls,
+ Two Quality Control Calls.

Yum!
A Taste-Test!

  • We actually do 5% of the session work the DIY Call equips you to complete on your own.
  • How Does It Work? Read Below!
  • If you don’t like it, you get your money back.

Taste-Test:

You bring something like:

  • “My ex’s mood suddenly changes; it’s overwhelming.”
    or
  • “I’ll barely have arrived home and she’s talking fast– Aah!”
    or
  • “It takes me DAYS to recover from socializing. I hate being dragged along.”

We settle on 1 specific freeze-frame of pain/numbness/overwhelm you never want to experience again.

(This is part of crafting your personalized money-back guarantee around exactly what unpleasant experience will feel different in future if you work with me. I offer you plenty of time to sleep on the details before signing up. And scheduling the real work can take a few days. But then, it can go quite fast!)

Without having to re-experience or explain it, you tell me the specific, technical details you remember offhand.

My predictable set of questions make it safe for you to take in my warmth and nurturance free from manipulation.

I ask a series of questions nobody has ever thought to ask you. Very technical questions that even my least sensitive, most inarticulate clients find they actually can answer.

No questions like “when, what, where, how, and why.”
No analysis.
No labels.
Just your first-hand experience of discomfort.

We focus on, for example, ‘numbness’ in that particular freeze-frame moment… as separate from ‘overwhem,’ ‘heebie-jeebies’ and ‘wanting to escape’ — which each get focused attention.

With data of the right level of granularity, ambiguity subsides.

Your own calm, centered curiosity arises. Effortlessly.

It’s like when you’re “in the zone” coding, gaming, or lucid dreaming: you don’t know how you’re doing it, but you know you’re doing something very subtle, very well.

You can sense just a trace of the bad feeling as if from a safe, remote place… which is how you know it’s working…

Except this time…

For the first time,
you're not helpless.

A mystery you’ve been trying to solve on your own for decades, unravels:
the “mood-bomb” you’ve been trying to tip-toe around
proves, indeed, to have been dormant and hidden,
forever lying in wait…

Always looking for its chance to detonate…
except…

On the Taste-Test Call

you gain the exact kind of neutral, scientific, exploratory attitude
and mood-bomb-dismantling support you’ve needed

(instead of the usual, 100% understandable frustration.)

In the DIY Planning Call

We collaboratively construct a Detailed DIY Plan.
This game-plan is not only personalized; it is very concrete.
It helps you know exactly what to do to dismantle the particular
Mood-Bomb you’ve gotten tired of trying to tiptoe around.

The DIY Planning Call puts tools in your hands that allow you to finally dismantle this Mood-Bomb yourself, piece by piece.

Finally, it can stop endangering your peace of mind!

We’ll do this for 11% of the Mood-Bomb in the DIY Planning Call, and you do the other 8 parts yourself, between check-ins with me.

The secret?

All it takes is answering the same questions about your first-hand experience again.
The same questions you were already asked in the Taste-Test Call
in a different order…
this time answering what you’d rather experience,
carefully toggling only one data-point — one dimension — at a time…

to peace.

THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING.
LITERALLY.

If you follow your Integration Plan
(the last leg of the Detailed DIY Plan)
you’ll notice everywhere: 

You’ve stopped fighting yourself.

With this inner cease-fire,
you taste what it’s like
to be your best, deepest self.

Best of all,
— and this is highly paradoxical —
the real-life situations that used to “set you off”
start to actually grant you access
to a calm, collected mindset.

You recognize who you’ve always been inside,
shining through.

Life is less like a minefield
when there’s no more mood-bombs
beneath the surface.

So it’s just 2 sessions?

Yes and no. As the expansive overview (below) will show:

Taste-Test and Planning are long calls, and of the type that past clients and I recommend you schedule yourself down-time afterwards to unplug, maybe a nap… They’re sessions.

After those, you carry on that deep/sensitive work by yourself or with a buddy, hopefully on a schedule, perhaps in 20-minute chunks or daylong intensives, but not in appointments with me.

Then: Mentoring Calls

These are 100% normal human conversation, no nap required after. Mentoring Calls support you in

  • dismantling a mood-bomb alone or with a friend,
  • dealing with how paradigm-shifting it is, and
  • ensuring Integration — the last leg of your highly personalized DIY Plan — takes less than 5 minutes/day.

Step 2 includes:

See description above.

One eighteenth of the work.

You can get your money back at this point, if you decide it’s not for you.

Your Detailed DIY Plan isn’t just theoretical: it’s a personal, concrete, and actionable game plan. If you’re a visual learner, it’ll be a map or gameboard!Checklist type? Gotcha covered! Auditory? Lyrical? Mathematical? Rhythmic? Whatever way you learn, I adapt.

With map in hand, you can get straight to work — on this call if you want:

  • reach 11% relief,
  • experience Big Breakthrough #1 of 9, and
  • get my support setting up the app to support fun and easy integration.

The Detailed DIY Planning Call grants you unlimited access to a wiki with the details necessary to do what I do, for yourself:

  • Audio recordings, visual aids, and how-to instructions.
  • Science, theory, deconstructions and ways to engage.
  • Demos with multiple volunteers’ real data.

Weekly Zooms to help you navigate your Detailed DIY Plan to 100% relief.

Some prefer short Zooms, some long ones. It’s up to you.

Meet with me one-on-one 

  • for accountability/co-working if you like.
  • anytime you feel stuck or lost.
  • to celebrate the magical difference actual scientific inquiry makes!

You can schedule this anytime within 1 month or 4 Mentoring Calls.

For a description, see Quality Control Call #2.

This is your chance to pivot and opt into Step 3, or keep Do-It-Yourself-ing with my full and enthusiastic support.

The remainder of the ten Mentoring Calls with more of my support, celebration, and accountability.

Unlike Step 3 Sessions, no rest is required after Mentoring Calls.

If you opt to complete this set of work yourself, you have my full and enthusiastic support to stick with Step 2 only!!!

Your opportunity to — without cutting into your time for support — tell me how to improve this service.

I’m very graceful at accepting feedback, because I see plenty of places to improve already, and am always open to more. I’m grateful you’d take the time to help me prioritize.

Step 2 is a great deal!

Where else do you learn
  • How to hold pain without pain.
  • How to melt heartache away.
  • How to simply, permanently, and measurably improve your direct experience.

Can I bring a friend? Is there a 2-for-1 deal?

It’s so powerful, amazing, and awesome that someone is coming to mind for you to do this with! Congratulations! I’d love for you to involve them at no extra charge!

They don’t even really have to be that close of a friend, really, for this to go well. They just have to have skin in the game: some reason to keep appointments with you, even though it’s all about you.

I only support one of you receiving a whole package at a time. Like a surgeon receiving surgery, you’d wait ’til you’re done before rolling up your sleeves to offer them a trade.

When to introduce them?

Please do Step 1 solo (Introduction Call and Slept-On-It Call, both.) If, at that point, you know you want to move into Step 2 with a friend, that’s when to involve them at no extra cost.

I’ll give you a special scheduling link that the two of you can use to schedule up to two more FREE APPOINTMENTS to

  • bridge Step 1 and Step 2,
  • help your friend feel excited and confident, and
  • decide whether they want to come along for all of your Step 2 appointments! Yay!

Note:
If you are the one initiating,
you’re the one paying me,
you’re the one whose life will improve, and
you’re the one I’m mentoring — not your friend.
Even though they’re a budding facilitator.

So appointments where you don’t show up, are canceled. And I don’t coordinate or communicate directly with your friend.

We have to draw the line somewhere, and even if you’re okay with it, I’m not about to talk about you, without you!

Please book Step 1!



Within mere weeks,
you could
  • Map your pain.
  • Melt it away.
  • Choose your own metrics.
  • Measure real change.
  •  

Click here to read about Step 1,

or

here to read about Step 3.

Curious but hesitant?
No pressure!

How ’bout just doing the simplest thing ever: email.

You’ll immediately get my take on why smarts can be so isolating.

Hit ‘Reply’ to ask me anything!

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