For men of science who want better chemistry.

Conviviality without comparison.

Fun without friction.

All day long, you solve problems.

You come home to unwind.

Maybe kill some monsters…
make art… be loved.

You don’t want analysis, coaching, or advice.

And even if you did:

Common advice doesn’t work for you.

You’re uncommon.

I get it.

Is this you?

You avoid
party banter.

You base your ideas
on observation.

You figure things out
on your own.

You think
about ethics.

You don't "wear
rose-colored glasses."

Your uniqueness
also isolates you.

Hi. I'm Bree.

I’m sought out for meaningful, animated, fun conversation.
Many are relieved that I’m a trained scientist, as well.

Some hire me so they can make a big decision out loud.
Others so they can vent and realize they do make perfect sense underneath it all.

When asked to coach or advise, I share anecdotes that reveal my own learning curves and humiliation. It helps.

If you cringe at small talk, too,
I’d love to meet you.

Bree, I offer tremendous thanks.

This book would not have happened without you.

I've had many past lives, but you...
You're from the future.

I’m such an introvert that people usually exhaust me. But it’s different with you.

With most people, I’m ready for a nap after about 10 minutes of conversation.
But an hour with you goes by so fast I don’t even notice time passing.

You’re funny, smart and wise, and so easy to talk to that I’m energized and not exhausted,
even when we talk about my least favourite topic: me!

For a decade, I did not have close personal relations. It was like:

‘I don’t care! This is hopeless! Forget it!’

Well, it was a Hail Mary pass, but
this has been the HUGEST turn-around!

I love talking with Bree. We’re very different people
– I’m introverted, shy, and sometimes shut down, and she can be very outgoing and outspoken –
and
she consistently meets our differences by communicating transparently about her own experience, inviting me to give her feedback and adapting to it, and actively and compassionately seeking to understand my experience.

Our meetings have provided me a rare opportunity to experimentally speak my full truth, which has been valuable practice that I have seen enrich my other relationships. It’s been a pleasure to learn and grow with her.

Your approach impressed not only me, but all the employers I sought to work for.

I now work with the firm of my choice, and I know it is the right fit. Pragmatically speaking I’m making a healthy salary. Plus I’m ecstatic to work with a team of people who share many of my visions and work diligently to make them real.

We did this together, Bree.

Thanks for standing by me all the while and encouraging me through every step.

I’m a big-bandwidth person, and so
I’m often afraid of overwhelming people.

What I appreciate about you, Bree, is that you are “big enough.”
I feel like I can be met by you.
You can meet me.

I can be as big, or as much, of “me” as I NEED to be, and you can meet me.

I don’t have to be nervous about “OMG, I have to say only 10% of who I am” for fear of overwhelming you.

You've got your own wisdom.
It just takes sorting out.

My confidence is founded in 17 years of experience
helping thousands of people make sense and de-stress
in conversations that affect life for the better in lasting ways.

No fee.
No upsale.
No strings attached.

No fee/strings, either, just a relaxed
structure for sussing out whether or not
you’d like to hire me as a confidante someday.

Contact

Unleash your sincerity.
I welcome your concerns, questions, or plain-spoken feedback.

If you’re thinking:

‘That’s all good and well,
but she doesn’t know me.
She can’t possibly get me,’

I commend your caution!

Book a quick-and-painless,
no-strings-attached conversation and judge for yourself. On the house.

Rational Hearts