Trained in the hard sciences in Europe, living in the US, I understand how weird it is to be smart at some things… and clueless at others.
My own social awkwardness was compounded by cultural, professional, and neurodivergent factors. (Though, being female, I was permitted emotional expression, which I consider a privilege.)
With support and on my own, I have been methodically applying the Scientific Method to the soft sciences on a scale where discoveries are relevant, credible, valuable, and rewarding: observing and documenting data points and dimensions of awkwardness with scientific precision. The results are astounding: the process itself actually transforms discomfort into ease… patience… and confidence.
I received 125 sessions of this work in 2006, blossomed beyond recognition, and have lived with the benefits ever since. Only after certification in parallel ‘soft science’ modalities validated using fMRIs and proper double-blind studies, have I felt it was ethically responsible to “hang out my shingle.” — In fact, now that the process has been validated, it’s unethical not to!
Other ‘coaches’ think you need to be coached. Not me.
If you long for a process by which you can make logical sense of irrational feelings, predict them, and make relaing to self and others LOADS easier, you’re in the right place!
-Bree