Let Him Discover My Site Himself

I support men of science
who want better chemistry:

I work specifically with guys
who have a knee-jerk reaction
to NOT “do as they’re told.”

Which I welcome & celebrate.

Please don't tell him what to do!

You care about him,
so DON’T tell him to

~~read anything~~,
~~visit this site~~, or
~~hire me.~~

You KNOW that will backfire.

There are many good reasons for men to not accept
so-called “help.”

Ignoring his hesitation only makes it worse.

Too many people just send a link and sigh ‘I tried…’

Piquing his interest
takes care and integrity

To illustrate what I mean,
I’ve spelled out some sample messages you can adapt, below.

I’m not saying
“copy-paste this and you’re golden,” but…

Don’t you think something like this would be a lot kinder,
wiser, and more trustworthy and effective?

FIRST MESSAGE:

Hey, I read this ____ [link to article/post/tweet/insta]

and I think it helps me understand your pespective a bit better.

I wonder whether you like Briana’s take as much as I think you would…

SECOND MESSAGE:

Briana makes me feel so much closer to you —
like I finally understand what you’ve been saying all along
in regards to ________ [insert topic].

She sure has a(n)
[interesting take/novel perspective/compassionate advocacy]
on it, don’t you think?
[link to a 2nd piece]

But I can’t just keep sending you all her s t u f f.
I’m gonna trust you to subscribe if you’re actually interested.

LAST MESSAGE:

I need to stop messaging you about Bree.

It’s just, she really seems to understand
“men of science who want better chemistry”
(that’s who she advocates for)
and I love that she’s neither a therapist nor a coach.

I subscribed because she helps me see things more from your point of view, but…

This [link to 3rd piece] is the last gem from Bree I’ll forward you.

Would that intrigue him?

You picking one/more social mediums and
subscribing yourself, not him.
Privately linking to 3 items,
embedding each in its own, meaningful, personal message.
Stepping into the trust you want to have:
making it clear you are NOT sending any more.