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When you’re not so sure anymore…

In the aftermath of a great idea, you can experience a sudden faltering in your train of thought. Not just a derailing or a distraction, but actual not-knowing. As if you just ran past a sudden cliff-edge, beyond which your train-of-thought’s “tracks” trail off into space… The train? It’ll just have to fly. This article is about the momentary panic that can accompany good shifts. Thanks to first-hand experience, I

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Bigger on the Inside?

You’ve probably imagined stepping off of an urban street, through the open doorway of a blue phone booth …into a time-and-space-traveling control room with a pulsating Presence all its own. But have you ever imagined BEING that resourceful, mysterious, pulsating Presence, yourself? What if YOU are actually bigger on the inside?  What if you are a gateway to unseen dimensions, to alternate endings, to places and times only you can

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How to Refer the Guy Who Knows Everything

This is the last post in a series on how frustrating it can be for cheerleader types wanting to ‘help’ a smart guy who doesn’t actually want help/feel helpable/believe that respectful, fun help is available. Even if you’re convinced that I’m a good (non-help-y word that better describes my services anyways) conversation partner for him, I understand how risky it can feel to recommend he talk to me.  So just

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