For men of science who want better chemistry.
You love the women in your life.
You want them to be happy.
Even if you
- troubleshoot complex problems professionally,
- studied systems thinking,
- and meditate regularly…
It’s easy to get lost in the blur.
Scared you’ll say the wrong thing.
So you’re alone.
She can’t really understand;
has no clue what it’s like for you.
Which can be extra frustrating if you’re usually
quick on the uptake and explaining other stuff.
But being different doesn’t mean being wrong!
If half (or more) of these apply...
You avoid
party banter.
You prefer to do
your own research.
You figure things out
on your own.
You think
about ethics.
You don't
"wear rose-colored glasses."
Your interests aren't
at all mainstream.
i've got good news for you.
I have a unique way of helping my fellow skeptics —
especially those who’ve been hurt by experts telling them how to act, think, or feel.
I specialize in helping guys who, like me,
- value scientific rigor,
- choose to stay skeptical,
- refuse to suspend critical thinking,
- reject manipulation,
- hate bad chemistry and
long for sudden ease at
getting along with others
while staying true to themselves…
I guarantee my clients —
within mere weeks, and then permanently:
You can stay rational
and trust your heart
I’ve helped over 400 individual clients and over 200 group participants extricate themselves from the clutches of shame, isolation, and addiction. I am a Case Consultant / Intervision Specialist to IFS Therapists and Couples Counselors in 7 countries.
Despite being a non-therapist, myself, I’ve enjoyed some IFS Level 1 training. I am a Seek Healing-certified Social Health Facilitation Practitioner, which requires tremendous humility to do well.
(And yes, I do realize the irony of naming humility myself, but it’s a value I look for in any facilitator.)
I’m told that my straightforward, warm, transparent facilitation style is comforting and especially attractive to neurodivergent folx who might otherwise never have shared.
Formal education:
My degree in Laboratory Sciences from the Netherlands included a thesis project I did ‘abroad’ (in Boston) at Harvard’s Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, where I kept working after graduation.
Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center (part of the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance) petitioned a subsequent visa so I could contribute to microchimerism research.
Being a Dutch graduate of Laboratory Sciences whose thesis project was published in Nucleic Acids Research might sound impressive, but I haven’t touched a PCR machine or Northern blot since 2006.
It was after all that that I came to be a client — and later a practitioner — of the modality I offer now…
A modality based on my true passion: the healing power of scientific inquiry itself.
You can explore my free/paid services now, or just
sign up for my free 5-pager:
-- and What You Can Do About It.
Pastimes: meaningful moments with my spouse,
singing/dancing/talking with friends,
laughing out loud at Discworld novels.