For men of science who want better chemistry.

You love the women in your life.

You want them to be happy.


But when they talk...

so many
variables

It can overwhelm.

Even if you

  • troubleshoot complex problems professionally,
  • studied systems thinking,
  • and meditate regularly…

It’s easy to get lost in the blur.

Scared you’ll say the wrong thing.

So you’re alone.

She can’t really understand;
has no clue what it’s like for you.

Which can be extra frustrating if you’re usually
quick on the uptake and good at explaining other stuff.

…But it doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you!

A man of science who wants better chemistry

If half (or more) of these apply...

You avoid
party banter.

You prefer to do
your own research.

You figure things out
on your own.

You think
about ethics.

You don't "wear rose-colored glasses."

Your interests aren't
at all mainstream.

i've got good news for you.

Who am I?
I'M BREE.

I’m a tri-national, autodidactic polymath with a Dutch degree in Applied Laboratory Science who openly takes issue with both the DSM and woo-woo ‘gurus’ because of the power dynamics.

Maybe it’s because I, personally, have a hard time trusting the benevolence of anyone who gives advice of any kind. 

Way back in 2006, when family drama still dominated my life, I learned a far more invigorating way to make discoveries than I ever did in my (published!) lab work:

I learned that detailed, scientific inquiry into first-hand experience can do overnight what years of really good therapy does for some, but could never have done for me… because I would never have considered therapy. Ever. Not even to save my life.

Suddenly, after some intensive work that lifted loads off of me in just a few days,

  • hardly anybody recognized who I’d been before.
  • I became the best version of myself.
  • I started living my values without losing my balance. 

Instead of simply evangelizing “this is the best thing since sliced bread” (which was tempting,) I focused on gaining more life experience as my true self.

Years later, I’m finally ripe and ready to help others — and I’ve helped many. I even play consultant to a handful of coaches, ministers, and therapists who want their clients to be the healer, not them.

I’m here to help you reinstate your innate emotional intelligence yourself, ASAP!

I have a unique way of helping my fellow skeptics —
especially those who’ve been hurt by experts telling them how to act, think, or feel.

I specialize in helping guys who, like me,

  • value scientific rigor,
  • choose to stay skeptical,
  • refuse to suspend critical thinking,
  • reject manipulation, 
  • hate bad chemistry and

long for sudden ease at 
getting along with others
while staying true to themselves…

I guarantee my clients —
within 9 weeks, and then permanently:

You can stay rational
and trust your heart

You can explore my free/paid services now, or just
sign up for my free 5-pager:

Why Smarts Make it Hard to Connect from the Heart
-- and What You Can Do About It.
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Briana Jacoba, for men of science who want better chemistry

Pastimes: meaningful moments with my spouse,
singing/dancing/talking with friends,
laughing out loud at Discworld novels.