For men of science who want better chemistry.
You love the women in your life.
You want them to be happy.
Even if you
- troubleshoot complex problems professionally,
- studied systems thinking,
- and meditate regularly…
It’s easy to get lost in the blur.
Scared you’ll say the wrong thing.
So you’re alone.
She can’t really understand;
has no clue what it’s like for you.
Which can be extra frustrating if you’re usually
quick on the uptake and explaining other stuff.
But being different doesn’t equate being wrong!

If half (or more) of these apply...
You avoid
party banter.
You prefer to do
your own research.
You figure things out
on your own.
You think
about ethics.
You don't "wear rose-colored glasses."
Your interests aren't
at all mainstream.
i've got good news for you.
I have a unique way of helping my fellow skeptics —
especially those who’ve been hurt by experts telling them how to act, think, or feel.
I specialize in helping guys who, like me,
- value scientific rigor,
- choose to stay skeptical,
- refuse to suspend critical thinking,
- reject manipulation,
- hate bad chemistry and
long for sudden ease at
getting along with others
while staying true to themselves…
I guarantee my clients —
within 9 weeks, and then permanently:
You can stay rational
and trust your heart
I'M Briana Jacoba.
I’m a tri-national, autodidactic polymath with a Dutch Bachelor/Master’s degree in Applied Laboratory Science.
In 2006, when mamma drama still dominated my life, I learned a far more invigorating way to make discoveries than I ever did in my (published!) lab work:
I experienced how detailed, scientific inquiry into first-hand experience can do (overnight!) what years of really good therapy does for some, but not all.
Therapy could never have done much for me, because I would never have considered trusting anyone with a psych degree. Ever. Not even to save my life.
But through a stroke of luck, suddenly, after some intensive work took loads off’ my heart in mere days,
- hardly anybody recognized me anymore, and everyone started treating me better,
- I became the best version of myself,
- I was able to live my values without losing my balance.
Rather than evangelizing “OMG, this is the best thing since sliced bread!” (which was tempting) I focused on gaining real life experience: I joined the ranks of Preschool Teachers and City Bus Drivers, all the while staying true to myself.
20 years later, I’m finally ripe and ready to help others — and I’ve helped many. I even play consultant to a handful of coaches, ministers, and therapists who get how broken the old paradigms are.
I’m here to help you reinstate your innate emotional intelligence yourself, ASAP!
You can explore my free/paid services now, or just
sign up for my free 5-pager:

-- and What You Can Do About It.

Pastimes: meaningful moments with my spouse,
singing/dancing/talking with friends,
laughing out loud at Discworld novels.