Finally!
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RATIONAL HEARTS
like yours!

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Deer-in-the-Headlights, a short poem
I just did a relationship faux pas, but… I don’t know what I said or did. It doesn’t look like it’s okay to ask, so I… can’t really think straight right now, let alone recall what just happened and make sense of it. This is a bit jarring, actually, because I actually thought everything was…
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Isolation Kills – My point of view (and skills)
This post outlines why I have such a passion for supporting men in tech. It’s not anger or “wanting to fix them.” It’s compassion at how much MORE LIMITING the stereotypical male emotional palette can be on guys who aren’t jocks (for whom idealized masculinity isn’t working out, either.) It’s my story of female emotional…
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“Secret Admirer” vs. “Stalker”
As a support-person to smart, sensitive men, many of whom “just want someone to love,” I’ve had multiple clients who want my help sussing out whether they can stay someone’s secret admirer indefinitely. They feared that revelation might be the end of them –or at least of their self-respect. “Better to stay a secret admirer,…
4–6 minutes
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