You’re fine. Really.

Except maybe at times when…

πŸ™„ You’re single.
How to pursue your interests without being labeled a ‘creep?

πŸ™„ You have growing affections for someone you kinda rely on.
You don’t want to screw it up.

πŸ™„ She likes to talk. You’re a good listener. Perfect… until it’s not.
How to stop the blame game? Is there any other way?

πŸ™„ She said she loved you “just the way you are.”
So “helping you learn and grow” is an invasive betrayal.

πŸ™„ Your breath stops. She’s expecting you to say something.
How long has she been staring? How to minimize the damage? Aah! What to do???

Rinse and repeat: πŸ™„ You’re single…


Is This You?

You’re smart:

πŸ’‘ you like to figure stuff out for yourself in ways that save face.
πŸ’‘ you value the scientific method: observe, hypothesize, test, iterate.
πŸ’‘ you prefer to “see it to believe it” and hate being nagged/coaxed/told what to do.

We’ll get along great if

πŸ˜‰ you’re agnostic, iconoclastic, or just not big on authority figures.
πŸ˜‰ you’re understated… technically inclined… and misunderstood.
πŸ˜‰ you have trouble striking up mutually engaging conversations,
maybe you feel dull by comparison, or ‘ve been told you’re “too much.”

If you’re curious, by all means: help yourself to my free e-book.

Of course, you’re welcome to disagree with my point of view.
Click here to find out why I think it’s hard to stay true to yourself in the big, wide world.

Are you reading this with someone else in mind?

(You know he wouldn’t want it any other way.)