Rational Hearts

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Free call
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  • I want to hear about your situation.

    You might be afraid you're a burden, scary, or "a bad man," but I promise you: I get how pain and the search for relief motivates many decisions.

    I'm not out to control or try to save you.

    I'm here to just be 'in it' with you, with care, and get your point of view from that place. There's room for us to build trust. I've been burned, too... I get it.
I want to meet you!
You're protected by a comprehensive privacy policy.
No faith/hope required.
No hard sales. No pressure.




I don't talk to the women in your life.

I only care about your experience.

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I AM NOT A THERAPIST.

Nowadays, Psychologists, Psychiatrists
and Social Workers
often have waitlists.

Millions of people benefit from their help, and I support that.

FYI, if you have the financial means, you have the option to to pay them out-of-pocket, rather than submit to most insurances' prerequisite of a diagnosis, or limits on session length/frequency.

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Why bother meeting?

You don’t have to tell me your whole life story, disclose any secrets, or tell me the worst thing about yourself. This is not a trust fall.

This is just us noticing whether enough shared understanding is already present between us to warrant a follow-up call to talk details.

At first, I’m just curious to get a sense of what results you’re looking for, and where you’re at right now.

Makes sense?

Zero Sales Pressure?  –Really?

Really.

I’m actually curious, in a welcoming way, what it’s like to be you when a mood-bomb goes off.

(Yours, or someone else’s.)

What are all the steps to hiring you, Bree?

First free Zoom conversation (Voice & Video optional)

20 minutes in:

  • I get the sense whether I can help you find the right support, or offer it myself.
  • I ask you whether or not you want to explore together what it’d be like to work with me.

If no, no hard feelings.

If yes, we add 10 minutes to

  • talk about what that might look like,
  • pick a metric for the pain we’d aim to relieve,
  • book another FREE conversation for Q&A, no obligation.

You can

  • explore the agreement without signing anything,
  • fill in a questionnaire to ensure we’re on the same page,
    and
  • access a free, self-paced un-course.

We meet again (for free again) to

  • discuss potential agreements in as much detail as you like,
  • check how the un-course suits you,
    and
  • answer any and all questons you have about Step 2 so you feel confident scheduling Step 2.

With your consent, we schedule the Taste Test and enter into the Step 2 agreement, involving an initial payment of $116.

Note:
Even the Taste Test from Step 2 can be something you walk away from refunded if it’s not for you.

Worst case scenario, I help you find a better fit among my colleagues, and get you their support ASAP.

No instant sales. You get to sleep on it, first.

Talking to me is very safe for your wallet, and for you.

Information-gathering doesn’t obligate you to follow through on anything!

I’m happy to refer you to free and/or relevant resources.

No need to get ‘too excited.’

You shouldn’t have to ‘psych yourself up’ or be in any particular mindset to meet me.

You hate making promises you can’t keep…

So don’t.
Don’t promise anything.

Say it with me now:

There’s NO NEED to try to be

  • ‘ready,’
  • hopeful, or
  • in a good mood

to meet me.

No need whatsoever.
I swear.

Many guys who book these are exhausted at having had to routinely use all the ‘pep’ they can muster just to function.

Wear clothes.
But otherwise, please let yourself just… be.

I GET IT.

What if you’re exhausted because you’re constantly tiptoeing around live mood-bombs?

Constantly tiptoeing around live mood-bombs is exhausting. Unpredictable ups and downs can really cramp your style and make scheduling appointments into a big ordeal.

Please don’t cause the exact isolation you’re trying to prevent: it’s hard to schedule ANY activity if you’re afraid you have to ‘perform’ to keep it.

Low confidence can obscure high motivation.

It can be hard to book a call if you think it requires believing relief is possible. (It doesn’t.)

If you’re an “I have to see it to believe it” kind of guy, that’s exactly who I work with.

And you still might not want to make an appointment. Meet me, a stranger. I get it!

Maybe for now, all you want is to get to know me over time, through my videos and my blog.

That’s fine. I trust that, when the time is right, you’ll know.

It can be hard to imagine hiring ANYONE.

If you’re really, really hopeless and exhausted, you might wish I could simply read your mind… I can’t.

But I can send you a few questions in advance to prompt the kind of sharing that helps us know quickly whether

a) you’re in the right place already, or

b) I might have the honor of helping you get there.

Come, come however you are.

My talent is in seeing your sheer brilliance — even if you yourself feel lost or ‘stupid.’

I have a way of witnessing loneliness without making people lonelier.

I want to meet you!

Please pick a time!

Step 1
Free Introduction Call: 20-30 mins.
I listen for 20 mins. 
I refer you to the best support I know of for your situation, and if it’s me, we can talk about that an extra 10.

You sleep on any decisions, and we talk again for free.

Step 2
Taste-Test Call,
Detailed DIY Planning Call, 
and then
10 follow-up calls
to help you navigate the vast knowledgebase and Do It Yourself!

Step 3
Guaranteed Success.
Option to work with me 1-on-1.

Don’t believe me?
That’s healthy skepticism!

How ’bout just doing the simplest thing ever: email.

You’ll immediately get my take on why smarts can be so isolating.

Hit ‘Reply’ to ask me anything!

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