can make you re-experience
all you’ve ever suffered,
ALL AT ONCE.
You keep rehashing what could have been, in vain.
Numbing, gaming, workaholism…
it all leaves you empty inside.
It even hurts to remember having been happy…
your critical, analytical, rational mind
is vital and — with help
can heal your heart?
because in the right company,
it’s not misery.
We’ll see you through this. Together.
nobody ever thought to ask you.
It’s about how they’re asked
innate confidence (NOT HOPE)
and realism (NOT DESPAIR)
that you know has to be experiential and real, to work.
In TWO DAYS flat.
‘I don’t care! This is hopeless! Forget it!’
Well, it was a Hail Mary pass, but
this has been the HUGEST turn-around!
– I’m introverted, shy, and sometimes shut down, and she can be very outgoing and outspoken –
she consistently meets our differences by communicating transparently about her own experience, inviting me to give her feedback and adapting to it, and actively and compassionately seeking to understand my experience.
Our meetings have provided me a rare opportunity to experimentally speak my full truth, which has been valuable practice that I have seen enrich my other relationships. It’s been a pleasure to learn and grow with her.
I’m often afraid of overwhelming people.
What I appreciate about you, Bree, is that you are “big enough.”
I feel like I can be met by you.
You can meet me.
I can be as big, or as much, of “me” as I NEED to be, and you can meet me.
I don’t have to be nervous about “OMG, I have to say only 10% of who I am” for fear of overwhelming you.
With most people, I’m ready for a nap after about 10 minutes of conversation.
But an hour with you goes by so fast I don’t even notice time passing.
You’re funny, smart and wise, and so easy to talk to that I’m energized and not exhausted,
even when we talk about my least favourite topic: me!
This book would not have happened without you.
I've had many past lives, but you...
You're from the future.
I now work with the firm of my choice, and I know it is the right fit. Pragmatically speaking I’m making a healthy salary. Plus I’m ecstatic to work with a team of people who share many of my visions and work diligently to make them real.
We did this together, Bree.
Thanks for standing by me all the while and encouraging me through every step.
Feel better within days.
Celebrate and integrate for a month.
12-20 short one-to-one conversations over Zoom.
(In 2 days flat, or spread out over time.)
No guided meditations.
Just you measuring what is real for you.
Just me being the lab-assistant who sets you up for success.
I’m SO confident you’ll be blown away by your results,
the 3rd $330 is optional.
This kind of guarantee is unheard of!