Except maybe at times whenβ¦
π You’re single.
How to pursue your interests without being labeled a ‘creep?‘
π You have growing affections for someone you kinda rely on.
You don’t want to screw it up.
π She likes to talk. Youβre a good listener. Perfect… until it’s not.
How to stop the blame game? Shrug it off and walk away? Double-down?
Is there any other way?
π She said she loved you “just the way you are.”
Was she lying? What changed?
Her agenda to “help you learn and grow” feels invasive.
π Your breath stops. She’s expecting you to say something.
How long has she been staring?
How to minimize collateral damage? Aah! What to do???
Rinse and repeat: π You’re single…
Is This You?
You’re smart:
π‘ you like to figure stuff out for yourself in ways that save face.
π‘ you value the scientific method: observe, hypothesize, test, iterate.
π‘ you prefer to “see it to believe it” and hate being nagged/coaxed/told what to do.
We’ll get along great if
π you’re agnostic, iconoclastic, or just not big on authority figures.
π you’re understated… technical… misunderstood.
π you have trouble striking up mutually engaging conversations,
either ’cause you you feel dull by comparison, or you’ve been told you’re “too much.”
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